Why Does It Feel Like Nothing Happens When I Go Inside in IFS Therapy?
Feeling blank or like nothing happens in IFS therapy? This article explores common reasons and how to relate to blankness and blocking parts without pressure.
Why Have I Been in Therapy for Years, Understand Myself Deeply, and Still Not Feel Better?
Many people who stay in therapy for years aren’t stuck because they lack insight. They’re often highly analytical, thoughtful, and self-aware. This post looks at how thinking parts take on the work of healing in IFS, and why that can block change.
The Two Faces of Adult ADHD: Balancing the Neurodivergent Mind
Guest post by ADHD therapist Lacey Redding: Learn how trauma-informed ADHD therapy using IFS and DBT helps adults balance internal parts, manage emotions, and improve executive function.
How to Do a U-Turn with IFS: A Step-by-Step Guide
When someone triggers us, our attention usually stays on them: what they did and how they made us feel. But in IFS, we can learn to pause and do a U-turn, turning our attention inward instead. This post walks you through six simple steps to connect with your parts, understand their reactions, and respond with more clarity and compassion.
IFS Therapy and Autism: How Parts Work Can Support Neurodivergent Minds
Autism isn’t a part, it’s your wiring. This blog post highlights some of the ways in which IFS therapy can be such a good fit for autistic individuals – offering a flexible, non-pathologising approach that works with your system instead of against it.
Managers, Firefighters, Exiles and the Self – Introduction to the different parts in IFS
This article explores the key parts discussed in Internal Family Systems (IFS) – Managers, Firefighters, and Exiles – and provides real-life examples of how these parts might manifest. It also introduces the concept of the Self, the core essence of who we are, which serves as a compassionate and guiding presence distinct from our parts.
Understanding Psycho-Neuroimmunology: The Interplay Between Stress, Emotions, and Physical Health
In this article, I explore the emerging field of Psycho-Neuroimmunology (PNI) and how it helps us understand the connections between emotional stress, immune function, and physical health. Drawing on recent studies, I discuss how therapies like mindfulness and Internal Family Systems (IFS) can support immune resilience by reducing inflammation and fostering emotional well-being.
Navigating Challenges in IFS Therapy from the Therapist’s Lens
In this article, I've delved into common challenges encountered during IFS therapy and shared insights on how I address them. Beyond specific techniques, what resonates most with me is taking a step back, returning to Self, and reassuring my parts that there's no urgency to reach a particular destination. Instead, being present with the parts that emerge in the current moment is the most crucial work for both myself and my clients.